1. Turn off the television and read


2. Brew a cup of tea or sip some chilled iced tea

3. Pop some popcorn & enjoy a film you’ve been dying to watch

4. Take a nap or go to bed early

5. Listen to music (soothing, possibly without lyrics)

6. Be near water (paddle around in a canoe, walk along the river, stroll along the beach)

7. Treat yourself to a spa treatment (pedicure, facial or massage)

8. Get a good nights sleep

9. Take your dog for a walk – it will make their day and calm you down.

10. Practice yoga

11. Gather a stack of magazine and allow yourself to just peruse at will

12. Make your favorite meal and add a glass of wine

13. Order take-in and watch your favorite guilty-pleasure show

14. Take a bubble bath with lavender

15. Snuggle

16. Make cookies and enjoy them with milk

17. Do something creative – write, draw, dance – and allow yourself to get lost in the doing

18. Visit a new art exhibit

19. Treat yourself to a cooking class

20. Visit your local farmer’s market

21. Allow yourself to laugh out loud

22. Go to a cafe and just savor your coffee while people watching or reading the daily newspaper

23. Work in the yard – dig in the dirt

24. Bring fresh flowers into your home – place one singular flower in a bud vase by your master bed and office space as well as bouquets in the usually places.

25. Get a make-over at your local department store

26. Enjoy a mid-afternoon treat with a friend at a quaint restaurant

27. Allow yourself (keeping your budget in mind) to buy an exquisite pair of earrings, shoes or blouse that you’ve had your eye on

28. Visit a Japanese garden or a beautiful garden in your area. 29. Keep a journal (it doesn’t necessarily have to be about what happened during the day, it can be a list of things you are grateful for, favorite quotes and ideas you run across during your days, etc)

30. Savor the moment and just be